

And I brought up the idea of going to a sex party. One day, my partner Joe* and I were talking about all the other things we might want to do. It sounds really cheesy, but I wanted to find out who I was again. I felt I'd reached a point in my life where I didn't have to be just a mum. I was considering going back to university, or having a career change. I left my career in law to go on maternity leave, and once my two children got older and more settled in school, I started thinking about the future. I’d never felt brave enough until this year. "Joining members-only sex party community Killing Kittens has always been something I’ve wanted to do. Here’s what happened.Ĭarla also shared her experiences on an episode of the Cosmopolitan podcast ‘All The Way With’. Since lockdown, they have attended two virtual sex parties, hosted on Zoom by Killing Kittens.

They have two school-age children and live in Manchester.

Carla*, 35, and her partner Joe*, 36, met in their late 20s and have been together for eight years.
